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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   tksai says:
    Posted: 30 Jul 13

    I was married for 29 years before the relationship was lost, I found this nice black girl who opened my heart mind and soul more than anyone else.. I could wake up next to her and get old forever.

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  2.   prettygirl46 says:
    Posted: 21 Jul 13

    White men dig deeper into my soul. I like when they interested in everything I do. It's nice when they are considerate and helpful. I can relate to black men on a different level but it's different with white men.

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    • Kandy28 says:
      Posted: 02 Aug 13

      This is so true!!!! I never thought that I would date a white man. But I am so happy that I met him. He has totally opened my eyes to a whole new world.

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  3.   Anje01315 says:
    Posted: 09 Jul 13

    To me a white man is all I need. I believe they are pretty different from blacks. Like seriously I would love to get married to one and get old with him.

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    • Titi1978 says:
      Posted: 26 Mar 20

      You wish! Whether it is from black or white man it is a true love that matters that is what we women need a loving a faithful respectful husband ... When it comes to marriage it is not easy for a black woman to get married to white man ..class socioecomic status ,race, family etc are key factors too !

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  4.   kyheart2 says:
    Posted: 30 Jun 13

    I'm a black female who started dating white men at age 15 in 1970, and my reason was because one asked me and I was attracted to him. Since then I have only dated white men, and married a white man. And in all the years we were married (almost 38) we never had problems with ugly comments, only stares, and that never bother us. When we did get comments, it was how loving we were as a couple. Men are men stop group thinking, it's the individual. White men are no better no worse than any other man. I have three sisters but I was the only one who would date a white man, so from my experiences white men, black men, men are men, some differences of course like hair texture skin color etc. It is my preference to date white men, I can't say why but it is who I prefer.

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  5.   MrMiGGs says:
    Posted: 24 Jun 13

    The reason why interracial couples work is because of curiousity. OPPOSITES ATTRACT.

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    • mtntopvw says:
      Posted: 26 Aug 13

      Opposites do attract but it doesn't mean they will stay together.

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  6.   kea12 says:
    Posted: 23 Jun 13

    I think that people need to get over the color of the skin of the person and notice the way people are happy when together. I love it when a person takes the time to tell me how special and beautiful I am. I have noticed that white men will always talk about my skin, lips and curvey body. I think love should not be about color it should be about the person and the way they connect at a deeper level.

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  7.   scoff says:
    Posted: 22 Jun 13

    We did it after all these years; we got married. It's official we are now husband & wife. Just think that in 1967 I would of never thought this could be, and of all places the court house. When I get a minute I'll tell all of the details for now we are just enjoying each others companionship. "the court house how times have changed" another saga/story" We Love all you & God Bliss Scoff & Sarah

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    • ChocolatLadi says:
      Posted: 08 Sep 13

      OMG! I so happy for the both, May God continue to Bless YOU! The saga must be revisited.

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  8.   cakelady1 says:
    Posted: 22 Jun 13

    I am read everyone's postings and a thought cross my mind. Everyone that has posted are looking for the same things. Why can't you contact each other on a personal level? It seems there could be possible budding romances right here. You all have expressed how you feel and what you want. Is there anyone acting on it? I know some might get mad at me for pointing out the obvious. It was just a thought...For those that find what I said offensive I am sorry. You find love in unusual places...:)

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  9.   dark.angel says:
    Posted: 20 Jun 13

    Interracial relationships are amazing, just my perception and preference. I love walking around and seeing mixed couples together. Black man, white woman or white man, black woman. It looks sexy and amazing to me :)

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    • darkangel65 says:
      Posted: 20 Jul 13

      Black men should honor and respect their black sisters but they dont. All they do is run to "them" and bad mouth us to "them". We should NOT let them get away with this. They are not with a white chick because of love, they just want to bad mouth us and have low self esteems issues, cuz they think that makes them better than us cuz they got a white trick. I've actually heard them say that!

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      • RandyNMI says:
        Posted: 15 Aug 13

        I have also heard the rhetoric from black men, and I think your right, it is a way to keep you below them in their minds. Every woman should have someone that treats them as a equil, not above or below them, tell them they are special and lovely.

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  10.   AngelfromLA says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 13

    I personally don't like it when people say that there is no difference. There is! C'mon! Me, I love white men. I love the color of their skin, the sound of their voices, and their mannerisms. I personally have always noticed that Black, White, Asian and Middle Eastern men move, walk and carry themselves in their own special ways. I chalk it up to culture. We all know that Black men walk with swag so why can't we acknowledge that white men walk with power. Even when a white men is not in a position of power, he has a tendency to walk as if he has it. I think that is so sexy! Just think about it. I am attracted to white men. There is so much wonderful diversity in the world and when people TRY to act as if there are no differences among men (or women for that matter) you are in denial. Yes, things have happened in the United States that have made acknowledging difference uncomfortable. Acknowledging that my skin is dark and then declaring that I am inferior because of it and that makes it is okay to enslave me? Yeah, that was a problem but we know better now, right? Especially white men. And I think that we need to always remember that during this time in our history, white men could not ignore their attraction to that beautiful African woman. I'm just sayin! I think that here in the U.S. we just need to admit that our ugly racist history complicates interracial relationships today. Just say that. But don't sit there and say that there is no difference! I love the difference! I am attracted to white men and everything about them! Everything that makes them different from the other men in the world. Attraction plays a roll into even being willing to speak to someone in the first place. As a woman, I do not plan on marrying and having sex with a man that I am not attracted to. I just can't do it. And so it is, I am attracted to white men.

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    • pinktoeone says:
      Posted: 21 Jul 13

      AngelfromLA, I couldn't agree more! The differences are a big part of the attraction. I would be in denial to say otherwise. It will be great when we don't have to pretend to be colorblind. Black men are the most beautiful to me. Colorblind is a lie...

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  11.   Buzzing20 says:
    Posted: 06 Jun 13

    Nevertheless, I feel that love has no color. If two people love each other and they are good to each other and for one another then power to them for bringing their cultures together.

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  12.   Buzzing20 says:
    Posted: 06 Jun 13

    Ok umm, where are these white men that love black women? Because, there are none where I am lol

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    • jpweiss@roadrunner.com says:
      Posted: 16 Jun 13

      A lot of white men are very interested in black women but are afraid of rejection, or feel that black women are not interested in them, and many feel intimidated. I have always liked black women much better, so I just go for it. It`s because of their sense of humor, honesty, and of course to me they are far more attractive. Also..... with all due respect to all women..... I want to be polite....... black women are much better in bed.

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      • cancerian72 says:
        Posted: 05 Jul 13

        That comment is really incorrect, that's just what some Black Women would like for you to believe that they're not interested in White men. The truth of the matter is that a lot of Black girls tend to be a bit fullerfigured than most (esp in Houston, TX where I come from. ...Most of my Black friends are more along the sizes of12-18) Unlike Latino and Black men who usually prefer their women a bit thicker, (Some)White men seem to prefer the tall, straight High Fashion model body type vs the typical Black female curvylicious body. We just don't want to be rejected, so therefore most of us stick with what u know. You play it safe when u stick with what u know, but then again u may just miss out on something beautiful. So when u hear a Black Woman comment, "No, I'm just not interested in White guys. " Don't take it at face value, what she really could be saying is,"I'm not interested in them because they might not like me."So therefore I'm going to pretend not to like them, so my feelings won't be hurt.

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        • ResilientShe says:
          Posted: 27 Aug 13

          You couldn't have said it any better cancerian72...I am that woman your speaking of...I have a few extra pounds on me, and I always assumed, white men preferred females with a model type figure.

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        • Toy83a says:
          Posted: 07 Jan 14

          You are so right. For example, in my area of SC, most black and white people who are together are crucially judged. There are not too many white men who are trying to date the typical curvy, and I am going to put it out there, dark skinned black woman. Most of the white men I know prefer lighter skinned or biracial women. If they do like those women, it's more like trying to fulfill their curiousity and not for love. Although I have been attracted to white men, the ones I know have never tried to approach me. I didn't hold it as a grudge, I just had to admit the truth, some people have grown with the times, and some will always worry about what others think. I can't fault anyone for that though.

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    • jpweiss@roadrunner.com says:
      Posted: 16 Jun 13

      I also like that a black woman tends to look much younger than her age. She does not need as much makeup as a white woman. Many white women without their makeup are sort of..... scarey looking first thing in the AM. Trying to be honest and polite. Buzzing20 I think that if more black women would show interest in white men, if they are interested, the interest by white men would be gladly returned.

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      • 18rowdy54 says:
        Posted: 27 Jun 13

        You're not the first white man that has said all of those things in regards to black women but the comment that sticks out the most "If more black women would show interest in white men,....., the interest by white men would be gladly returned" Very well said and highly true statement!

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    • corlyn49 says:
      Posted: 05 Jan 14

      That is so true, where are they, I don't get it.??!!!!

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  13.   UntaintedGem says:
    Posted: 06 Jun 13

    I desire a man (race irrelevant, as long as he falls withe human race category ) who is: •Confident, yet simultaneously respectful to me and everyone around us •Ambitious, intelligent, innovative and VERY successful (because this is also what I bring to the table and so I accept nothing less) •Someone that I find attractive (no matter what society deems, "attractive ) I may have found him, but I have to be sure that he is truly the one for my 6 yr old daughter and me, and ensure he is not simply displaying his best behaviour. Time will tell! =)

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  14.   aaronpresly says:
    Posted: 29 May 13

    I don't want to date black women. I want to date an attractive and fun womAn. All generalizations are wrong.

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    • queenpetunia says:
      Posted: 18 Nov 13

      Hello there, i like your post. I have read through a lot of them and most people are forgetting that black, white brown, we are all people. There is good or bad in every race. the point of the matter is finding that person that click with and can build a future with, thank you.

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  15.   prettygirl46 says:
    Posted: 27 May 13

    Most white men are curious about black women, and it's sometimes a deep attraction which they often want to explore. I feel that they can learn a lot from us as we can from them.

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  16.   440190 says:
    Posted: 23 May 13

    I can not say that i do not separate a white woman from a black one. Since I was in my teens I had a knowing that Black females was just my choice in a woman. They are both physically and mentally attractive. Even though I dated two white women before, I knew I didn't want to retain a longer relationship, but every Black woman I thought "what can I do to make her happy", how can I keep this one. So, I think i was born to be with a black princess and that is that.

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    • alexy727 says:
      Posted: 04 Jun 13

      thanks tht makes all black women out there happy to here tht we are not limited or judged

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  17.   Matera says:
    Posted: 15 May 13

    Well, i tink white men are d best of gentlemen n they are truthful, lovng n hardworkng. Thats why i've always dreamt of being wit a white man all my lyf, its funi i knw cuz am black bt i cn neva choose a blck broda 4 a husbnd ova a white man and datz why am here, i pray God gives me 1 2 cal 'my drm'

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    • whitemantou says:
      Posted: 19 May 13

      thanks my lady that's true words.

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    • sxybrwnsuga says:
      Posted: 15 Jul 13

      Girl was married to an italian for 5 years. You are going to face the same issues regardless of race. Life doesnt become perfect because you are with a white or black person.

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  18.   MarkFoor40 says:
    Posted: 12 May 13

    I can only say why I am attracted . Every bodies got their own likes and dislikes . For me its several reasons . I've been married twice to white women . Never cheat , hit them and always went to work . It wasn't enough for them . MONEY ! Both ex's were all about money . Forget the fact I tried the best I possibly could for both , they wanted more . Of course I to want more and better for myself but for most people it takes time and a little saving up . Example . Why are white women so into Lady Diana and the Kate ? Money . I'm in no way saying black women don't want more , but most are like me and know it takes time and you have to save . Its not always best to have it right now , then your suffering financially . And finally for me is they are down right beautiful .

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    • beleza35 says:
      Posted: 16 Jun 13

      My question is why are so many white men so insecure? I've never seen so many men so fearful of every damn thing. Some worry about Black men. I haven't dated a black man in nearly 20 yrs so why would this be a problem. Some are afraid to leave their state and prefer the woman travel to them. What is the problem? Some are paranoid about their bodies? I don't understand why men are on this site wanting to date black women if they are too afraid. Women aren't attracted to weak men.. period. I just don't understand. Can you please enlighten me Mark?

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  19.   bevbev says:
    Posted: 11 May 13

    I am interested in trying to date a white guy,never done that before but I have been hearing good stuff about white guys and am hopeful that I will find that right guy for me,I hear the Caucasians are the best, can't wait to find my match and I wanna be real and not change a thing about me,

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  20.   dave_74 says:
    Posted: 10 May 13

    It's like they say.... once you go brown , You don't return!

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    • skygal says:
      Posted: 23 May 13

      Unfortunately there a a LOT of white men out there with a huge appetite and lust for black women. They prowl npick up night spots or bars and clubs for casual sex or even start casual hook up relationships but you know they will never commit coz the truth is there is still an incredible stigma in society with WMBW relationship. WM face a whole of social rejection for going "lower" and many people see this as really scraping the barrel. Here in South Africa its probably many many times worse. When I'm out with my boyfriend people openly say the most horrible little comments to him in his language (Afrikaans) or to me in my language (Zulu) like "r u so deperate for money u would sell yoself to a white man. A young girl recently said to him in a mall "you seriously can't find a real woman u have to end up with that" He got so angry and said some nasty things back. It takes real guts to stick this type of relationship out. But when were together alone its all worth it. He's the most attentive, loving man, he's worth it. So ladies its all worth it if you find the right one for you. But I would say avoid those older men from overseas- the 65yr old, 55yr old lecherousd guys drooling for young black a** and whip out their wallets before u can say Love lol. There are way too many of them around. Not to mention the married white guys (usually old) that will make you their concubine. Its not worth it and will break your heart in the end. Trrust me there are young liberal white men in our country you just gotta look a bit harder and be more discening. Those guys at work that will look at you a little longer than neccesary- be friendly and open, you might be surprised.

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      • pinktoeone says:
        Posted: 21 Jul 13

        Skygal, it makes me sad to hear that South Africa is still such a difficult place to date interracially. When mean-zpirited people say these things to you and your boyfriend...take eachothers hand, give him a kiss and smile. The bigots hate that lol! As a white woman who dates only black men, I've also found it effective to smile at those of your own race when they scowl at you, and act like you have NO IDEA why they look angry :) South Africa's integration is relatively new. In the U.S., we have been integrated officially for many years, and the verbal comments rarely happen, but the looks of disgust from both races are still alive and well. Take heart in knowing that these will ease up over time in your country too. Until then, be strong and proud and know that there are many brave couples all over the world fighting for their love just like you two. God bless.

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  21.   Johely23 says:
    Posted: 04 May 13

    I love white men... I love the combination of black and white. Lovely

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  22.   DivineBeauty95 says:
    Posted: 28 Apr 13

    I really wish white men would stop being so uptight. I for one love white men and want to be a serious relationship with a white man. I think white men are the best lovers and you can be 100% free with them I find them to be fun and adventurous.

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  23.   ndensia says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 13

    i believe on that too,so lets be happy!

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  24.   Atruladi13 says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 13

    I am 39 and the only serious relationship that I have been involved in was with a white man, so for me its a no brainer. I cant speak for all white men but I know the one that I fell for changed my whole outlook on life, love, sex etc. We did part ways but I'm hoping that there is another white knight in shining armour ot there for me.

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    • auro20 says:
      Posted: 22 Jul 13

      Love is the only thing close to magic, where there is love there's everything am very attracted to white guys gosh!! They are so romantic and loving and they bring the whole new meaning of love, ofcourse not all of them but as for me I will definately marry a white person and we will have beautiful kids.. :) ONE LOVE

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  25.   hali.aya says:
    Posted: 23 Apr 13

    i always thought it was racist of me that i wouldnt want to date or mary a guy from the same race,because most of them are like brothers to me,i thought that having a white husband will just be an unrealistic dream.but this site showed me that its possible.i havent found the one but i know white men as passionate love spreaders especially to black woman.my aim is to find a muslim white guy.i hope that dream will come true. Thank you for being an eye opener.

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  26.   Let_It_Swirl says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 13

    The frequency of White men with Black women is increasing somewhat... but still lags behind many other combinations of other couples. For me, I have never dated WITHIN my race... and probably never will. Some men stumble onto interracial relationships (although, for some, would call it more satisfying a sexual/ cultural curiosity) and some, like myself, specifically target Black and Hispanic women for serious relationships. Ladies, wouldn't you say there was a difference? Thoughts?

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    • Atruladi13 says:
      Posted: 24 Apr 13

      The only serious relationship that I have had has been with a white man. As I am now ready to settle down. That is where I immediately referred to, and the sex was amazing too! I love this site. Like minded individuals

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      • Kochouran says:
        Posted: 13 Jan 14

        Agree with you...The Only serious relationship I've had were only white men.

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  27.   moral18 says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 13

    I love the Caucasian male, with them you can be yourself. They'will love you no matter what you're.

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  28.   Magdal1 says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 13

    The combination of two different colors form a beautiful rainbow of colors. This society need to set aside the big blocks of mental stereotype.

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  29.   LIAMKETRA says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 13

    WHITE MEN ARE REAL AND ATRRACTIVE AND THEY BELIVE IN THE TRUTH....I WANNA GET MARRIED TO A WHITE GUY IN FUTURE

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  30.   Michael766 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 13

    I love how people are still commenting this article in 2013. 6 years after it was written. White men love black women because black women are the hottest.

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    • Eunicitah says:
      Posted: 17 Apr 13

      I just had to read this article to find out more because i love white men...and i wanna get married to one in future!

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      • Marcnickell says:
        Posted: 01 May 13

        That make us real happy to hear, Because we want the same.

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      • Dannyco56 says:
        Posted: 10 May 13

        You are a beautiful young woman so should not be a problem. I think attraction is what gets things in motion. If you find a person attractive then you are more open to get to know more about them and this will either lead to a relationship of some kind. Usually friends at first and then without knowing it, it may blossom into love. The first step in any relationship is communication. Eunicitah I know you will find someone I hope he will love and cherish you and you both will be happy together. God Bless you!

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  31.   coolancestor says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 13

    I love my Agyama because I have never ever had any woman treat me as she does!!! In every way!!! Color makes no difference. But my woman loves me with her heart and soul!!! I've never had that before!!! And her soft supple skin is beyond expression!!!!

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  32.   Tinatra18 says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 13

    Am black and i love my colour..onething i have learnt,is that people wil always criticise.i aint an angel,but i believe am a good person and i know that i wil find that special white man..everyone has a right to fall inlove and be with whatever race they want!

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  33.   yxv says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 13

    Most men find e attractive white and black. I find it interesting that people are fixated with colour....it doesn't matter! Date someone you love people :)

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  34.   JohnnyBGood2 says:
    Posted: 05 Apr 13

    I am a white man and I like/love black women because they are who and what they are. They don't TRY to be something or someone they are not. I love the way their skin has a natural sheen without having to put a ton of make-up on to make themselves look good. They have the self confidence and self esteem to make a man WANT to be with them. THAT is why I like black women and that is why I am searching for the right woman to "go the distance"

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  35.   Magnetic13 says:
    Posted: 20 Mar 13

    I joined this site to find a lover and friend that will last the rest of my life. I did not join to find a white man or any other particular race for that matter. I am willing to date a white man (I've had a few dates with a couple of them, but nothing physical), but was unsure about what stereotypes he may hold; so I asked several white men on this site, why they want a black woman... the one I received that was the most heartfelt was "just be you and don't change". I'm more convinced that there are white men who sincerely want a woman for who she is and not just her ethnicity, skin color, lips, hips, and resilience; even though these are also some of the reasons given for loving black women.

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    • Marcnickell says:
      Posted: 01 May 13

      The fact is Opposites attract! The fact is you are Black and I am White! The fact is you are a Women and I am a Man! As folks get to know each other, Those labels of Black and White disappear. More facts " LOVE IS LOVE So you must not fight it or you will be alone. God has embraced you with Beautiful skin tone , Let your new Man love you without wondering why .

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  36.   Nairo says:
    Posted: 19 Feb 13

    i think people should stop being racist and one human family as long as we are all human being

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    • jpweiss@roadrunner.com says:
      Posted: 16 Jun 13

      You are right. If every marriage was interracial for the next 100 years America would have a lot less racism.

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    • Mitch1954 says:
      Posted: 16 Jun 13

      my wife is black and i adore her i respect her and love her she is my life my love my dreams my kids love her and they are happy we are happy we are all gods childern

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  37.   kelsy21 says:
    Posted: 18 Feb 13

    i personaly thinc those white guys who hate blacks might exist but they is still enuf for some of us black gals who are soo attracted to white guys.i cant wait to find one myself

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    • shaggy17 says:
      Posted: 19 Feb 13

      Hope u find that guy, I'm meeting an older woman this summer who looks alot like you, I'm a virgin looking for the right person so that says something I'm sure, I don't even care that she isn't, wish me luck :)

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  38.   Matt0331 says:
    Posted: 13 Feb 13

    Some of what i say here i quote myself from a different thread but i thick it fits well here too. I don’t know about anyone else’s reasons for loving who they but my own. I grew up with two beautiful white sisters, and yes they are beautiful and it took me a long time to admit it (i got into more then a few high school fights over it) and about 75% of my cousins are female as well. So when I’m walking down the street or in a bar and see a beautiful ww my first thought isn’t “oh man she is hot,” its “oh dang she looks just like my sister.” It made it difficult or down right impossible for me to be romantically involved with ww. I defiantly prefer BW, I figured that out during the last 5 years and just this year i confided in my friends about it. Most of them carefully avoided the subject a few gave me dirty looks and my best friend actually says directly to my face that I'm disgusting, how much he is joking and how much is serious i don't really want to find out. Im so glad i found this website.

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  39.   blackjack777 says:
    Posted: 08 Feb 13

    Sorry about your experience. You just met the wrong women. Keep the faith.

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  40.   meblkuwht, says:
    Posted: 03 Feb 13

    I've been in a relationship with a same white male for the last past eight years. I love him dearly. He's my everything. He wants to marry me but, I'm just not ready. Because, he travels out of the country a lot for his job and when he's in the states he get called to do other job. We live in different states but, we travel to see each other every chance we get. We talk to each other everyday, go on vacation at least three times a year. So, ladies if you're interested in dating a white guy, go for it. I've never been so happy.

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    • caistorbabe says:
      Posted: 13 Feb 13

      If your are fortunate enough to find love then the rest will fall into place. You both will find a way to make it happen. I have always dated wm, the last relationship was lasted 15 years! I look forward to the next now I am single hence why i am here.

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    • Jamilove90 says:
      Posted: 01 Jul 13

      girl you are bless and I pray he marries u soon

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  41.   working_fire says:
    Posted: 31 Jan 13

    I love black women because the are sexy and confidence. I'm talking to a black woman now and she is so easy to. It is seems like that black women are more easy talk to.

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  42.   kallmesaucie says:
    Posted: 30 Jan 13

    i am so much in love with white men, i have been with two but unfortunately one was married and the other divorced and not looking foreward to settling down. they are amazing people. really enjoyed being with them. looking for a white guy out there. if u are interested let me know, and lets get to know each other. hugs n kisses to you all.

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  43.   kallmesaucie says:
    Posted: 30 Jan 13

    @ dan maybe, they dont want to be embrassed or look cheap cos they may think u dont feel the same way. and in Africa, guys are the ones expected to propose to girls not the other way round.

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  44.   husker9 says:
    Posted: 28 Jan 13

    One might say that I have run the gambit with black women, I have been with three, 1st one went to her Texas lover when he showed up on her door step, which was a lie as she knew he was coming. Bad choice, my fault for trusting. Second was a hustler, talked of a life together and was hustling other men both black and white. The third which was actually the first, was a lady who had "Been in the Business" if you get the meaning. We just drifted apart and yet remain fridnds. She is now greatly involved with her church as I am. So you might think an educated, ex cop would know better. Truth be known I am still very much attracted to BW and only God and the future will tell. In closing I find them Warm, Caring, down to earth in several ways and can go from jeans to evening wear and fit well. And Yes, the sex ranges from just that to knowing how to love a man and be loved. So the "Jury is still out" I would like comments if you wish. God Bless

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  45.   kallmesaucie says:
    Posted: 26 Jan 13

    i love white men till death, cos they always love u for who u r and not what u r. They are very wonderfull people.My sis got married to white guy today, it was so amazing! looking forewad to my future white man!

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  46.   almasi says:
    Posted: 25 Jan 13

    well what can i say, i love me a white man and some caramel coloured babies with cute curly hair is just a plus! :-) I am pretty mind set on spending the rest of my life with a white guy...BUT in as much as skin tone counts, so does character, personality, ambition and age. Reasons: My exposure to both races reveals black men's ego can be a little too much to handle sometimes, a white man can respect his woman enough to sit down and converse with her, rather than spelling out what he feels should be done...it is this black man's poor attitude that made black women strong(er), which in turn, white men find attractive in black women..its just a cycle..

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  47.   terry5159 says:
    Posted: 23 Jan 13

    white men are very romantic.but its a personal choice.black women are sexy and gud in bed period!thats why white men love us!!!

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  48.   lookfind says:
    Posted: 13 Jan 13

    I'd just like to weigh in with my perspective. I'm a South African, and yes, the excitement of what I as a white male could not have prior to the end of Apartheid is part of the attraction. For me though, I, like kctiger4u find there are more African ladies with a similar life view to mine. I don't come from a wealthy family, we made do, and stuck out the tough times, and I find a lot of ww (not all) seem to think that life should be easy, and when stuck, mom and dad will come bail you out, whereas a lot of African women (once again, not all) believe that a happy life requires hard work, and there will be good and bad times, but if you work hard together, things will come right. There are ww with this view, however, they then have the disadvantage of not having those glorious curves and tantalising skin, and I don't if it's true for all "black women", but the African women I have dated have a skin smell that just makes me want to lose myself in their arms until end times.

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  49.   kctiger4u says:
    Posted: 09 Jan 13

    Hi everyone - Speaking for myself I prefer black women for many reasons some are purely physical. Some of my attraction is based on the strong spiritual strength that many seem to posses in great depth. Then there is their ability to project their opinions and communicate their feelings without being demure. I believe this final aspect for me is the strongest reason for my attraction. To be fair my opinion has matured since I was a child and had my first crush on the only black girl in a majority white school. The effect this crush had on me certainly colored my view of relationships. ( no pun intended ) When she moved away the following year I did not have the opportunity to date a black woman until after high school. As I grew older I would seek opportunities in college to date them because I felt comfortable with them. I liked their beauty and the way they carried themselves. I find the inner quality of quiet strength to achieve to maintain their dignity and balance their responsibilities to theircommunity and families a vast contrast to that of often over privileged white girls who had never struggled for a thing in their lives. Frankly having grown up in a military family and borderline poor ( NCO's like my father was don't get paid a whole lot ) had exposed me to similar circumstances. I have also discovered that black women are very oriented toward the family and the men in their lives in a unique and refreshing way, My ex's were far more attentive to me and less self centered then most of the white girls I dated. This in turn made it far easier to reciprocate my love for them and be equally attentive to their needs, dreams, and desires. I am pretty much set on finding my queen and I know she is out there somewhere. God will bring us together and we both will be richly rewarded because of our diversity and our ability to go beyond antiquated beliefs and social taboos that still seek to keep people apart. A black woman with that strength of character and courage is surely worth the wait.

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  50.   GIJOE35 says:
    Posted: 03 Jan 13

    I look at reality, and reality says, we are one race, that is the "human" race, I think all women are beautiful, I dont really have a certain color I like best, I see beauty in all colors, shapes, sizes, all around the world, That is what I love about being alive, I have so many beautiful people around me, we all have that, just open your eyes and see what God created for all of us, Wow, I always find beauty in each and every person. I love life and the people even more.

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