The Date Whisperer with Carson Simons

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  1.   Dawnelle says:
    Posted: 03 Feb 17

    I am getting off my bench I need I a single black girl lady living in Jamaica need a white man age 40 ,99

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  2.   FELLYCO says:
    Posted: 01 Feb 17

    I believe in real love and trust, ready to get off the bench and I wish to find someone on this wonderful site.

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  3.   roozet says:
    Posted: 31 Jan 17

    Am single lady looking for along term relationship hope God will do it for me.

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    • rajeca says:
      Posted: 06 Oct 17

      i am in india can u come in india in delhi if yes pls reply

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  4.   Ceaser007 says:
    Posted: 29 Jan 17

    Am a Christian guy and I hope to find someone also God fearing

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  5.   RAPHZIKIRA says:
    Posted: 27 Jan 17

    I am ready to get off the bench with you, I am looking a beautiful Malawian lady who knows to love and understand

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  6.   Sekel says:
    Posted: 26 Jan 17

    I wish to find true love here at this site

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  7.   pulentine says:
    Posted: 22 Jan 17

    I am ready to get off the bench with you,im single looking for white Man who knw how to take care of a woman ,love me take good care of me and u will be the happiest man in the world ,what u see is wat u get and u must be 25 up to 30 mwaaa:p

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  8.   Nberrybear says:
    Posted: 22 Jan 17

    Am ready to get off the bench with you...single black girl seeking single white man , compatibility and companionship covers what am seeking....

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  9.   queencm2 says:
    Posted: 21 Jan 17

    I would love to meet my solemate, love, happiness, trust, faithfulness, companionship, friendship all in one basket.

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  10.   Shewani says:
    Posted: 17 Jan 17

    I Am Abdul 42 Years old Merreid Medeam Class Femeily I Am Searching Women Good Liking Open Mind Good Thinking Life Partner rage 35 To 40Years Old Indian's Never Merreid / Merrried No Children / Devoresd No Children / Sunni Muslim & Hindu / creshchean

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  11.   077633ksh says:
    Posted: 14 Jan 17

    I am loving husband looking for a beautiful and caring wife, so that we can get together and make sure our family can be happy people

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  12.   Vamwa says:
    Posted: 13 Jan 17

    I believe God will give me lovely husband for the rest of my life in this forum.

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    • Mdhkmt says:
      Posted: 29 Jan 17

      Hi there how is thing going good you look very nice can I talk to you please

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  13.   Oludarrel says:
    Posted: 07 Jan 17

    Am ready to get off the bench, I need a caring loving and beautiful both inside and outside.

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  14.   Ceedals says:
    Posted: 06 Jan 17

    no comment. get me my match if this group is actually matching people for the purpose it was created.

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  15.   brix60 says:
    Posted: 06 Jan 17

    Anyone special lady out there?

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  16.   Dkny4real says:
    Posted: 04 Jan 17

    Am so ready to get off the bench

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  17.   Keadirang says:
    Posted: 03 Jan 17

    I am new on this thing i just wish to find a serious men because i come from the merriage i am a widow i need love ,respect trust

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  18. Posted: 11 Dec 16

    I'm ready to get off the bench been waiting for a while

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  19.   vanet says:
    Posted: 09 Dec 16

    Am waiting for the love of my life here thats wen how believe that true love realy exists.

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  20.   Matiniz says:
    Posted: 06 Dec 16

    Am ready to get off the beach is there any one can get me off the bench

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  21.   Matiniz says:
    Posted: 06 Dec 16

    Am ready to get off the bench help

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  22.   blanderry says:
    Posted: 29 Nov 16

    I am ready to get off the bench

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  23.   Just2blovrd says:
    Posted: 29 Nov 16

    I am ready to GET OFF THE BENCH. HELP

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  24.   Dipuc56 says:
    Posted: 21 Nov 16

    No one is special you have to make her special and fell her special.... love is love.....

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  25.   jun18 says:
    Posted: 02 Nov 16

    Hiii everyone...

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  26.   Godloveher says:
    Posted: 30 Oct 16

    I wonder if true LOVE really exit?

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    • Hassanosam says:
      Posted: 20 Apr 17

      Why don't we find out to answer that wonderful question because am of a different answer n am ready to make u see a whole new world from a different perspective. U don't fight this battle alone. Let me help. Together there is hope of victory. Are u ready because this is what we are meant for n we both knew this moment would come. It's here. It now or never. Join me. We fight for what's rightfully ours. We fight for love.

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  27.   bigdukefan says:
    Posted: 23 Oct 16

    I am new to this. How new you ask? I met someone this summer and on my birthday card she wrote" I will get you a swirl girl for your next birthday. I didn't know what it meant. I told her the other day that when it comes to woman I am color blind. If I am attracted to a woman I don't care who she is.

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  28.   Menkaura says:
    Posted: 19 Oct 16

    I am watching on YouTube "The Interracial Con Game " a real eye opener for all.

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  29.   yoo31 says:
    Posted: 16 Oct 16

    finding true love never comes easy but when you find it,it will stay with you for the rest of your life

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  30.   it.money says:
    Posted: 06 Oct 16

    If true love will feel my pain,than she will come looking for me

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  31.   Phyloge says:
    Posted: 01 Oct 16

    If true love exist, I believe I will get one here.

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  32.   4780 says:
    Posted: 30 Sep 16

    Sometimes i wonder may be they think that to be loved is acrime but for me ibetter go with the one who understands true love

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  33.   Makvikky says:
    Posted: 27 Sep 16

    Loveing, or to be loved The process of love making is like a meditation, slowly reaching & gently touching the limit of peak point of love. It's a beautiful & heavenly feeling. So love a lot & get lots of love

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  34.   se45 says:
    Posted: 07 Sep 16

    Enjoy love to the fulles

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  35.   get010 says:
    Posted: 31 Aug 16

    just love you

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  36.   Shaluix says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 16

    People It hurts to love someone and not to be loved in return for u know are with aright person but when he's just using you as a channel to find his right partner you really fall in love with him and he also makes sure that he's with but when only pretending simple advise don't go for looks they can deceive , don't go for wealth that also fades away go with a person who makes you feel like you're the only one .I hope to find my companion who is really sent from GOD.i wish myself good luck in this search so help me God pretenders do bother me

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  37.   Pinto86 says:
    Posted: 25 Aug 16

    love is understanding each others

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  38.   flashme says:
    Posted: 22 Aug 16

    a true love comes understanding if a woman knows duties and the man to knows his. love is a law from God, so if the law of God does not comes in it can never finds it true as love come.

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  39.   Berrita says:
    Posted: 18 Aug 16

    Its mot easy to find someone that u love a really lover on these sites a some one u can trust its not easy at all

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  40. Posted: 17 Aug 16

    i believe in true love and hope to meet my white soul mate guy in this site

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    • Phyloge says:
      Posted: 01 Oct 16

      Baby true love doesn't exist in only one corner but lawyalty is the mighty.

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  41.   percen says:
    Posted: 15 Aug 16

    I believe in true love........but its hard to get

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  42.   Asiy says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 16

    Really, a true heart that Love's,knows no reason why it does it.And to those out there, and of course my very self,let go get what's waiting!!!!. Love for all,hatred for non.

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  43.   kengza says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 16

    heloo

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  44.   Mtokoti says:
    Posted: 07 Aug 16

    Hi guyz,rill love sees no race. Has no condition. Its swt.

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  45.   ppanbhak says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 16

    ‎"MEANING OF TRUE LOVE" (36 votes, average: 4.11 out of 5) Love SMS Tweet ‎"MEANING OF TRUE LOVE" To feel someone in every heartbeat... To find someone in every thought.... To see someone with closed eyes.... To miss someone without any reason.

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  46.   Lynniryn22 says:
    Posted: 08 Jul 16

    Love is sweet. Love sees no color, age, height, weight etc, love is heart. I love love, I Love to be loved fortunately I love back.

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  47.   Sonu432 says:
    Posted: 06 Jul 16

    Love is life so enjoye ur life with love nd fun

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  48.   aitidi says:
    Posted: 05 Jul 16

    HEllo every body Love is respect and understing Love is life Woman is life No life without wife Woman is the basic of life I think with this way Good luck for me And for all people

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  49.   toni2wild says:
    Posted: 02 Jul 16

    Love it hard to find for me, but it shouldn't be you would think right. I see my cousins younger than me getting engaged, married and dating before I do and wonder if I'm pretty enough to get a guy. F

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    • jon54 says:
      Posted: 17 Nov 16

      my dear hold on to God ,his time is best for you

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    • Herko says:
      Posted: 25 Nov 16

      Babe can i talk to you please end me ur phn no.

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    • OYPrince46k says:
      Posted: 09 Jan 17

      love is not hard to find but if you have met some wrong guy you will think that how all men it is. forget about the past, look up for the next man and you will surely get that real man that will love you heartedly.

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  50.   ladedah63 says:
    Posted: 26 Jun 16

    What am i doing wrong

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    • NYGriego says:
      Posted: 17 Jul 16

      Personally, by reading this part "Would rather be at a cookout with me and my children than out clubbing with his friends. Romantic and outgoing are must. " It left me wondering where were the ideas about you and the potential guy? It's great that you want to be involved with your kids and all that but you're not showing how "romantic and outgoing" you are in your train of thought. Take out the sentence about the cookout and fill it in with that idea. Give it a shot.

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