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He's too busy? Here is what he really means.

Posted by Matthew, 13 Oct

Is your man really too busy for you or is he indirectly telling you he isn't interested anymore?

The question I give advice on today is:

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"If you are dating a gentleman who says he is very busy with his career and doesn't seem to have much time, but you always see him on Facebook or sporting events or activities... What do you think?"

Well here is what I think a woman needs to do when a man says he's "too busy for a relationship"...

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  1.   NYGriego says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 16

    "If you are dating a gentleman who says he is very busy with his career and doesn't seem to have much time, but you always see him on Facebook or sporting events or activities... What do you think?" He could be involved with a major business firm or real estate agency that lures clients with such gifts in order to close the deal more comfortably. Don't hate a man for working hard. Work hard, play later. As long as he makes time to see her then there shouldn't be a problem.

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  2.   Shelly34boYd says:
    Posted: 10 Jul 16

    What if in this case he works seven days. A week often times he really dont have time for nothing but sleep? What do you do move on?

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    • NYGriego says:
      Posted: 13 Jul 16

      An ex and I had a similar problem. Lawyer and teacher/tech person. We saw each other weekly and then biweekly sometimes, too. I lived over an hour from her and didn't mind the ride to see her just for 45 minutes twice a week when she was "very busy." She called me crazy for thinking like that. See, I was more than willing to put in the effort while she was fine with just texting until the next time we met up. I got fed up with her lack of effort and ended it. If you like/care for someone, make the MUTUAL effort or move on.

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