Why Rachel Lindsay and Newsweek Show That "Swirling" Is STILL Relevant I wrote Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed back in 2012. Upon it's publishing date, it was met with excitement, a celebration of how far we’ve come, and unfortun...

This Emotion Will Destroy Your Love Life... How’s this for scary? I’m in the studio on The Today Show opposite Kathy Lee and Hoda. It’s not my everyday situation, and I’m trying to make sure I’m on my best game. “So, what should a...

The TRUTH About Interracial Relationships Yesterday when I read an article on Vogue.com called, The Truth About Interracial Relationships, and saw that it was written by a black woman, I admit I started to bristle. I thought it was going to b...

How to Win in a Changed Dating Game The dating game has changed that's for sure. Things aren't the same as before. It has evolved. The landscape of dating is different now. The dating sites used to be small. People would hide that they...

THIS (Innocent) Phrase Scares Away Great Guys I can’t believe how many women still write this on their dating profiles. Every guy I’ve asked knows what I’m talking about. This toxic phrase scares off a huge amount of men, yet it feels like...

What To Do When He Is Not Investing In You Not investing in you? Have you ever wondered what to say to a guy who is not investing in you? A guy who is not showing you enough interest? Let’s face it: We live in a flaky dating culture. People...

Feeling Insecure? This Video Will Change Everything Dealing with insecurities This video lets you have a peek behind the curtain and see the footage from my live retreats on dealing with insecurities. And I couldn’t resist sharing this woman’s incr...

Meet 38-Year-Old Woman Who Has Never Had a Date! 38 year old woman who has never been on a date, kissed or had a boyfriend asks: "Can someone that lacks so much experience in dating and relationships find it at this advance age?!"

WATCH: 7 Sneaky Signs He's Flirting With You It’s funny how often women tell me they don’t know when a guy is flirting. Because to us men, we think we’re being so obvious. What seems to women like normal male behavior at a party, a bar, o...

WATCH: The REAL Secret To Getting Closure (It's not what you think...) Let’s face it, I have a weird job. My friends think so. My mum definitely thinks so. This week, if you’ve ever wanted a behind-the-scenes preview into the actual life of a “dating coach” (God...